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ACNS 2949 - LAMBETH PALACE - 9 April 2002

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Archbishop of Canterbury's sermon at the funeral of Her Late Majesty Queen
Elizabeth the Queen Mother

Westminster Abbey

9 April 2002

We gather in this great Abbey to mourn and to give thanks. It is a fitting
place to do so. A place where the story of our nation and the story of the
woman we now commend to her Heavenly Father are intertwined.

It was here that Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon was married and became Duchess of
York; it was here that she was crowned Queen; it was here that, as Queen
Mother, she attended the Coronation of her daughter. It is fitting, then,
that a place that stood at the centre of her life should now be the place
where we honour her passing.

In the ten days since she left us, there have been countless tributes and
expressions of affection and respect - including those of the many who have
queued and filed patiently past her coffin lying-in-state.

How should we explain the numbers? Not just by the great length of a life,
famously lived to the full. It has to do with her giving of herself so
readily and openly. There was about her, in George Eliot's lovely phrase,
'the sweet presence of a good diffused'.

Like the sun, she bathed us in her warm glow. Now that the sun has set and
the cool of the evening has come, some of the warmth we absorbed is flowing
back towards her.

If there is one verse of Scripture which captures her best, it is perhaps
the description of a gracious woman in the final chapter of the book of
Proverbs. It says: 'Strength and dignity are her clothing and she laughs at
the time to come.'

Strength, dignity and laughter - three great gifts which we honour and
celebrate today.

The Queen Mother's strength as a person was expressed best through the
remarkable quality of her dealings with people - her ability to make all
human encounters, however fleeting, feel both special and personal. As her
eighth Archbishop of Canterbury, I can vouch for that strength.

Something of it is reflected in the fact that for half a century we knew her
and understood her as 'the Queen Mother'. It is a title whose resonance lies
less in its official status than in expressing one of the most fundamental
of all roles and relationships - that of simply being a Mother, a Mum, the
Queen Mum.

For her family, that maternal strength - given across the generations to
children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren - has been a precious gift and
a blessing. Its loss is felt keenly today. And as they grieve, we say to the
Queen and to Prince Philip; to Charles, Anne, Andrew, Edward, David and
Sarah as grandchildren; and to all their children: you are in our thoughts
and cradled in our prayers and those of countless millions round the world.

The very first letter Elizabeth wrote on becoming Queen in the traumatic and
daunting circumstances of 1936 was to one of my predecessors as Archbishop
of Canterbury. It gives a further insight into the source of her strength.
She wrote: 'I can hardly believe that we have been called to this tremendous
task...and the curious thing is we are not afraid.' With her openness to
people, indeed as part of it, came a quiet courage. A courage manifest in
wartime and widowhood, a courage that endured to the end.

Strength, dignity and laughter.

There was certainly nothing remote or distant about her own sense of
dignity. Her smile, her wave, the characteristic tilt of her head: all made
the point immediately and beyond words. It was a dignity that rested not on
the splendid trappings of royalty, but on a sense of the nobility of
service.

On their wedding day here, the Archbishop of York spoke to the newly married
couple of their life together: 'We cannot resolve that it shall be happy,'
he said, 'but you can and will resolve that it shall be noble.' And indeed
it was. An unfailing sense of service and duty made it so. It was a
commitment nourished by the Queen Mother's Christian faith. A faith that
told her, as it tells us all, that even the Son of God came into the world
as a servant, not as a master.

Strength, dignity and, yes, laughter.

We come here to mourn but also to give thanks, to celebrate the person and
her life - both filled with such a rich sense of fun and joy and the music
of laughter. With it went an immense vitality that didn't fail her. Hers was
a great old age, but not a cramped one. She remained young at heart, and the
young themselves sensed that.

Of course, the laughter of the book of Proverbs goes deeper than a good joke
or a witty reply. 'She laughs at the time to come': such laughter reflects
an attitude of confident hope in the face of adversity and the unpredictable
challenges of life.

Of this laughter too, the Queen Mother knew a great deal. It was rooted in
the depth and simplicity of her abiding faith that this life is to be lived
to the full as a preparation for the next.

Her passing was truly an Easter death - poised between Good Friday and
Easter Day. In the light of the promise that Easter brings, we will lay her
to rest knowing that the same hope belongs to all who trust in the One who
is the resurrection and the life.

Strength, dignity, laughter - three special qualities, earthed in her
Christian faith. Qualities that clothed her life so richly. Qualities that
with her passing, we too - by the grace of Almighty God - may seek to put on
afresh, in our own lives and the life of our nation and that of the world.
Let that be part of her legacy to us, part of our tribute to her.

But let me add one final thing: for the book of Proverbs has more to say
about a gracious woman; words we can summon now as we commend to her
Heavenly Father his faithful servant Elizabeth - Queen, Queen Mother, Queen
Mum - deeply loved and greatly missed.

It simply says of a woman of grace: 'Many have done excellently, but you
exceed them all.'

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