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Feb. 27, 2004  News media contact: Tim Tanton7(615)742-54707Nashville, Tenn.
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A UMNS Feature
By Amy Green*

Bridget Cabrera likes to spend her evenings at her church across the street
from the University of Alabama, where she is a music education student. She
gathers at the church with her friends to sip coffee, play games, watch
movies and - sometimes - do homework. 
 
It is a quiet retreat from the parties her roommates like to throw. "The cool
thing is when you get down there, it doesn't feel like you're in church,"
says Cabrera, 22. 
 
It appears Trinity United Methodist Church in Tuscaloosa has achieved its
goal with at least one student. Troubled by the university's growing
reputation as a party school - it was ranked among the nation's top party
schools in the annual Princeton Review survey in 2002 - the church decided to
give students an alternative to the alcohol-laden bashes they were accustomed
to.
 
The result was Quirkey's Coffeehouse, opened last August in a former church
storage room with a name that gives an accurate description of the place.
With a setting more reminiscent of a "Friends" episode than a church
fellowship hall, the coffeehouse has become a popular hangout among students.
 
It shows them they don't have to drink to fit in, says the Rev. Alan Head,
church pastor. 
 
"It lets them know Christ meets us in our everyday experiences, in familiar
settings," he says. "The search for belonging is universal, but Christ can be
the center of that. It doesn't have to be the alcohol or party scene."
 
Against a colorful backdrop of custom-made furniture and artwork, the
coffeehouse offers snacks and a beverage bar where students can mix
cappuccinos and smoothies, three televisions with DVD players and two
computers with printers. The coffeehouse also has extra outlets for laptops. 
 
"I wanted to present biblical truths in whimsical and quirky ways," says
Doris La Grone-Kispert, a church member who designed the coffeehouse. 
 
For example, the bar is lined with bottles, each bearing a single letter, and
together they read: "Strong drink is an abomination of the Lord." A
chalkboard is framed with the verse John 3:16 - "For God so loved the world
that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not
perish but have eternal life" - written in 27 different languages. 
 
The window treatments are galvanized tin, and all the plumbing and wiring are
exposed. 
 
"I wanted to illustrate (that) so much of what goes on in us, it's known only
to God," says La Grone-Kispert. "We don't tell our innermost feelings to
everyone every day. But God knows the inside better than the outside."

College students make up about half of the 200 who attend Sunday services at
the church. Trinity spent more than $20,000 on the coffeehouse, with help
from an anonymous donor and La Grone-Kispert and her husband. Students pay
for their own drinks and snacks on an honor system, and so far their money
has covered costs, Head says.
 
The coffeehouse, open from 6 p.m. to midnight seven days a week when school
is in session, targets primarily the freshmen and sophomores who grow
restless in the dorms near the church. In particular, Head says, it is
designed for those from small towns who might feel lost at the 20,000-student
university and may not be interested in athletics or joining a fraternity or
sorority.
 
They gather at the coffeehouse for class study groups and Bible study groups.
They watch movies, use the computers, play games and order pizza. Eventually,
the church plans to offer open-mike nights and possibly draw local bands for
concerts. 
 
Cabrera says she values the coffeehouse for the friends she has met there.
She attends services at the church regularly but prefers getting to know her
peers in the congregation and their friends in a more leisurely setting. 
 
"It's a place where I spend most of my time," she says. 
 
The coffeehouse provides an unusual ministry opportunity, according to Nathan
Putman, a student in biology and marine science who lives at the church as an
intern. Students who turn out merely looking for good coffee and company
might learn about other church activities and become involved. 
 
He especially hopes the coffeehouse steers young students away from groups
that could lead them into the party scene.
 
"You come to Alabama, and it's a big place, and a lot of folks don't
necessarily know a lot of people," he says. "You want to have a place where
you fit in and people listen to you and you feel accepted. ... This kind of
gives people an opportunity to come together and meet up with good folks." 
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*Green is a freelance journalist based in Nashville, Tenn.

 
 

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